I primarily do guardian ad litem (GAL) work and do not accept private clients. As GAL for children, I am not bound by my client’s wishes so I don’t have the ethical dilemmas I would if I were defense counsel. GAL’s are supposed to advocate in the best interests of the child – We don’t choose a position based upon who is signing our paycheck. For example, if a young lady who is the object of a custody dispute wants to live with her mother because her mother allows the child’s boyfriends to sleep over, I am free to tell the judge what I think and make recommendations that I think are appropriate. Most of the time the right thing to do is pretty obvious. However, there are enough judgment calls involved that it keeps you humble. Sometimes I feel like I am playing god and, unfortunately, I bear little resemblance to the Almighty. Fortunately, the judges that I practice before are, to a person, excellent. The longer I work in this field the more admiration, respect and trust I have in their wisdom. They see it all and consistently “get” it. Sure, mistakes are sometimes made but overall, not too often. And that is why we have appeals.

I am in the beginning stages of researching to get a longarm quilting machine. They are horribly expensive, even used. In a few weeks my husband and I are planning to travel to the regional quilt show to test drive a few. I am mechanically disinclined but he isn’t and I appreciate that he is willing to take off work to take some for a spin. He thinks quilt shows are where post menopausal women hang out and that attending such a show is a fine birth control method.


More as my research progresses. Anyone with insight into choosing a longarm is encouraged to post your thoughts.
photos - taken off the internet. The Lenni is from Country Lane Quilting.
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