"On the plains of Oklahoma, with a windshield sunset in your eyes like a watercolor painted sky, you'd think heavens doors have opened."
Fly Over States



Friday, January 7, 2011

MIA

I hadn't realized how long it had been since I last posted until several nice people wrote to see if I had fallen off the planet. I'm fine but between Christmas; Husband taking two weeks of vacation (which meant he was roaming untethered around the house); and jetting off to NYC (where I am, now), I have either been occupied with other things or my laptop hasn't been readily available. Or I have been taking a nap.
I arrived on Wednesday and have done a bit of walking about, taking pictures.



NYC has some lovely places:
 

I found this, however, to be just ridiculous:
Downtown Manhattan:
 Here is the famous bull but I didn't get any good pictures because stupid tourists were mobbing it.
 These buildings are too close together, IMO:
 I went to Trinity Church, which is nestled not far from Ground Zero (911) in the heart of downtown:
 It was just lovely.
I went inside and it was dark and beautiful.  I sat and reflected for a bit.  Near the back of the church were more tourists, although some came forward to bow their heads and pay their respects.  I have to say, however, as much a dog lover as you know I am, and as holy as I believe dogs to be, I was still taken aback when a young woman smuggled in a little naked dog whose head was peeking out the top of her coat. 

That's just wrong. 

I think.  Actually, I doubt god would mind.  But still...

Looking up and seeing this jet flying over the city gave me pause:
If they threw up a Factory Shoe Outlet next to an historic place in Oklahoma City, people would insist it was a matter of poor taste and a reflection of their redneck nature. In NYC, however, it works. This is right next to the cemetery adjacent to Trinity Church in downtown Manhattan:
The trash from the blizzard that hit NYC right after Christmas is still hanging around waiting to be picked up but the streets and sidewalks were mainly dry until it snowed, today.
It has been cold, however. Who would have considered that it would have been a good idea for me to bring my gloves?

This squirrel down in Battery Park had an attitude:
I was snapping photos and kept expecting him to dart away. The furry tailed rat kept on coming until I backed up. I am sure it is because some fool humans have fed him. And the pigeons were just as bad. Last night, I dreamed that tortoises and birds became self aware and took over the world. They were not mean to humans, for meanness sake, but they didn't put up with any backtalk from us. I sometimes have prescient episodes and certainly hope this wasn't one of them.

More photos of downtown Manhattan:
 This statue wears a cloth robe. That strikes me as ridiculous. It is like putting clothes on a dog.

 
This building kept belching out black smoke every few minutes:
I found this Korean War Monument in Battery Park to be arresting. The center is hollowed out:

Lady Liberty at sunset:

And a sea gull.

Have you heard those things? They make weird, fricking noises. I don't like them.

Wednesday night we ate dinner at the apartment of my Squeamish Daughter (she knows what I am talking about when I call her that) and I stayed the night at my son's place.  Martin slept with me.  These aren't actually pictures of Martin sleeping with me but they are pictures of Martin sleeping. I suspect she has no bones:
Snuggling with Martin went a long way towards easing longing for my own girls. I was sleeping on an air mattress and found it perfectly comfortable. Still, I was surprised that Martin would stay on it for so long because my girls would have freaked out at the wobbly foundation if they didn't stab holes in it with their feral claws. Husband told me that Evelyn has been all but inconsolable since I left. He stopped at Chicken Express to buy some fried chicken livers for them. According to him, "I was very popular around here for a little while. Now, I am back to being the one that "lost mom."

Thursday night, Squeamish Daughter took me out to meet some of her friends and bought me expensive wine. After that, we had dinner with my youngest and her husband, in Brooklyn where I spent the night. I was so tired from walking that my skin hurt. I am not kidding. My youngest suggested it was just dry skin but I assure you it is not. It is because my skin MOVED. I would be built like a fashion model (even without estrogen) if I lived here for a month. Right now, if my thighs weren't swollen to twice their size due to inflammation from exercise, they'd look like sticks. I am sure of it. I have been walking like you wouldn't believe. 

Living in NYC is hard. The natives and young people are used to it but it is HARD. Everywhere you go, people are scurrying. They carry things with them. It is cold or yucky outside and they don't notice. They put in long hours. Many have to go to laundromats. Restaurants have fabulous food but in cold weather, they are cold and drafty. The school playgrounds are on concrete. How is that possible? How is that safe?

I am used to big houses with a yard for the dogs and you don't have to walk them to let them go to the bathroom and life is easy and comfortable. If someone pooped on my sidewalk or I saw a rat near my house, I would freak out. If someone honked a horn on my street, I would assume they had a mental problem.
And this easy life is why my butt is getting so big.
New Yorkers are tough. Much tougher than I am.


Happy Quilting, Penny, Evelyn and Pearl

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Blessed Solstice!

Today is the shortest day of the year and there was a lunar eclipse in the wee hours of the morning (I slept through it).  That hasn't occurred since the 17th century.
This is always a day I look forward to because these short, dark days begin to lengthen, starting tomorrow.  We still have the winter to survive (and it is winter, as of today) but at least we can feel like we are winning the battle for daylight even if the cold weather may feel like it has the upper hand for the next couple of months.  I am not sure I could take the intense darkness and the coldest cold  at the same time.  Fortunately, Oklahoma isn't as prone to week in, week out bad weather the way some places are.  Come late February, most of us will feel like we won the battle between darkness and light.  I am speaking about climate/weather - not in the spiritual sense. :)

Today was also the day for the closing on the land we'd been thinking of buying.  It is just over 53 acres and the closing went off without a hitch.  The heirs (six siblings!) all came dressed in their Christmas finery and seemed very, very nice.  I thought it was so sweet that they came en mass to sign off on the family homestead and think they must surely have had mixed feelings of letting it go.  I know I would.  After speaking to them, I am not sure how accurate much of my information about the property has been in previous posts but what is clear is that they are a strong family with happy memories growing up there.  I need to head out to the County Seat after Christmas to check out how much of the land has been allotted for farming and how much for grazing.  I was told by a family member that it had never been farmed and that there remain buffalo wallows on the land from early days.  The late patriarch of the family was born in 1900. 

We drove out to the property after the closing and walked around for a few minutes but needed to get back to the house to check on the girls.  Here are a few quick photos:
Dry creek run off:

What the?????  There was a patch of the burrows that a SUV could fall into and not be seen again.  The openings were 10 inches in diameter and dropped 4 - 5 feet straight down.  If you dropped a tea cup Yorkie in there, you'd never see it again. 

The following was a hollow log in a dry creek bed that was covered up with bits of bark and wood chips by some critter.  I started to look in the log but husband steered me away from it.  I have no idea what would have built it but something did.  When I go back out there, I will try to get a closer look when I am not hampered by adult supervision.  Hope I don't get my nose nipped off. 
I may take my birdcam out there ahead of time and set it up in the woods to see what sort of varmints are partying on the property.
And speaking of parties, last night, we attended a neighborhood Christmas party and had such a nice time. 
This is an area that has many people born and raised, locally, so "small world" is a common refrain.  We've physically lived here a year and I am ashamed to say I had only met a couple of my neighbors.  Disgraceful.  Turns out, the neighbors hosting the party have a daughter who was in band with one of my girls (they both played clarinet which shrunk the world, further).  Our girls had already "friended" each other on Facebook.  Who knew?   I actually recalled her name once I had it in context.  

Likewise, my husband's late mother was fondly remembered by several people we just met who went to school with husband or his siblings.  His mother worked for the local school for many years.   There was even one of her former employers at the party who lives down the street and we didn't know it.  The way this went was that I would mention that my husband grew up in the area.  They'd then make the connection of our last name with his mother and enthusiastically make kind comments about her.  Few realised she passed away so long ago.   It made me smile to see Husband beam upon realizing that his dear mother hadn't been forgotten and that she had positively touched so many people in her too short life.  

I never met my husband's mother, who passed away more than 25 years ago.  That being said, I have consistently heard her described as a sweet person by just about everyone who ever knew her.  Many of those people are middle aged people (to be kind :)) who remembered her from the time they were in school.  Their tone of voice tells me they mean really sweet, not just "nice."  I am sorry I didn't have the pleasure of knowing her although I might have been utterly intimidated.  My husband still suffers grief after all these years and the loss is probably all the more acute because she was such a good mother.  Not only was she "sweet," she was strong, loving, funny and sensible.  One of the loveliest things about my husband that I found so endearing when we first met was his down to earth, genuine and matter of fact love and respect for his parents.  No drama there and I appreciate that. 

Family drama is highly overrated.

Been working on cleaning up my sewing room.  With my art classes, it sort of turned into a craft room and got completely out of control to the point where no sane person could retain that sanity if they were in there for any length of time.  Here are some photos of my shame:
 
 There is no excuse for that or this closet:
 I still have a ways to go but the closet is looking better:
I can't believe I actually posted that hoarder's paradise.

Off to throw some more wood on the fire. 

Happy Quilting, Penny, Evelyn and Pearl